Most of our self-images begin to be formed long before we even realize it. Studies show that of Pre-kindergarten & Kindergarteners 80% have their self-esteem in tact. By the 5th grade the number drops to 20% and by graduation it drops to 5%. For some this self image is damaged at home and for most of us the standards of American society are responsible. These pressure us to try to measure up to something that God didn’t intend for us to measure up to. These are the roots of inferiority complexes. When we feel that we do not measure up to the expectations of others or fall short in our own minds we can fall prey to "exaggerated visibility". We begin to act out in ways to get the attention and acceptance that we feel we would not get otherwise. This is a dangerous place to be. When one is desperate for validation, one often does not consider the consequences. The results can range from becoming trapped in bad relationships and situations to self harm.
However, the bright side is that according to 2 Corinthians 5: 17 "..if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away..." When you give everything up to Christ, including that damaged self-image, He can work in you and make you whole and content with what he has equipped you with specifically. Everyone is specifically made for a specific purpose in the kingdom of God. · The enemy knows that once you realize your potential and worth in Christ he knows there is nothing that can stop you. As long as he keeps reminding you of these “flaws” then he can keep you from being effective. Entrusting it all to Christ is the only way to gain peace.
Be well,
Pastors Hines
